Change ur name

I have a complicated deadname because romanization of Chinese names. But it's definitively a deadname and it's not one of the several I use depending on how I'm presenting. Because genderfluid. One of these days I'll just have to change my legal name to a properly gender-neutral/more convenient name.

Problem is, I feel really guilty rejecting my Chinese name; it's part of a culture I don't want to lose, so I'll probably have to tack it inside my legal name somewhere. Also then I won't have to change documents in HK... hopefully...

I do feel what Nottles feels though. I associate and will probably continue to associate a lot of my online life with the name Agen. I've done a lot of growing up as Agen, I've lived through some of the most traumatic events in my life as Agen, and most of my closes friends (you guys) know me as Agen.

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The current name I'm using in life is Cass, which can be either Casper or Cassandra, depending on my mood.