The thread for flipping shits (and tables)

believe me, having parents who want a divorce but stay together for the kids or w/e reason is a hell of a lot worse than having them apart.

Can confirm, it is extremely shitty. I don't know the whole situation but if i could say something to myself in the past, i would say two things; 1) It's not your fault in any shape or form. 2) Don't have expectations about people.

I guess the former is a lot easier to cope with and understand since you're not a kid, but the latter i still struggle with. You can't expect people to do not shitty things, because they may not even have the rational/emotional capacity to understand they're being so shitty, specially since they have troubles of their own; this is not meant to excuse anyone, it's meant to make you feel better about yourself - to help your brain understand that you did what you felt was expected from you and you have no control over people's actions. But i digress.

Give yourself time to assimilate this, i mean really give yourself time. Before bed, while showering, when nothing else is distracting you - to think about what you feel would be the best course of action for you at this moment. It's okay to be angry at people, let everyone else know you're feeling something, express yourself by making art, don't bottle up.