You Wake Up In A Bar

You are the unanswered question, the story in motion.
Your question is one without an easy, direct answer, something you would consider for quite some time...
But, an out exists: Forget this question. Move on, and live life. Be the Bartender you were meant to be, and seek no further. The world is full of things most wondrous, far too much to see to spend time on such questions.
...But, we cannot force this matter. If you wish to take that first curious step regardless of danger, cling to that question. Let it's claws latch on, its venom dig deep. We make no promises of pleasantries, only that the answer sought lay down that path.
Let this be considered the zeroth step in your journey, the crossroads. The decision to tread the path delightful, or take that journey of introspection.

And for what may be the first time on this journey... Decide for yourself, and decide with confidence.
Taking a choice not provided is in and of itself a most telling answer.
And remember: There is no rush, this is, after all, a very important decision.