The thread for flipping shits (and tables)

I hope everything went okay, spark <3

So a friend of mine came over from australia a couple weeks ago to go on a roadtrip with their best friend, who is also a close friend of mine. Me and my partner both asked friend N (new zealander, the mutual friend) to tell us when they were in Christchurch so we could all hang out. Friend N had made a big schedule and planned everything they were doing down to the hour but was super cagey about letting us know what it was and when they'd be back here. "Oh we probably won't be in christchurch for long" but nonetheless i thought i'd be a day or two at least? At any rate, they were both here when friend A (australian) arrived and left the country for a day or so.

Anyway they posted pictures taken this afternoon on facebook, at a local wildlife park. Then just now, friend A posted on their wall saying they'd just gone through australian customs.

They had enough time to hang out in the city today but didn't contact us despite us asking about it and saying we should hang out for /weeks/. If they didn't have time (which v much appears not true, since they went and did stuff here this afternoon) then either of them could have just said?

This is why i have such massive trust issues with friendship. I think i'm a nice person? Probably fun to hang out with? So why avoid me