This is gonna be the thread where we talk about stuff

I am told that saying to people that you will do things satisfies the same urges as actually doing them, meaning that if you say you will do something, you are less likely to actually do it.
So, beware saying "I am totally going to get back to X one of these days"! Don't say it, just do it!
Unless I am wrong about that, which is also possible.
But maintaining adventures is hard work, as I know from experience. I think the only way to do it is to just... do it. And delude yourself into thinking it is not hard work until it is too late and you have already done it. But talking about how you should be doing it, or why you aren't doing it, or that you'd like to do it but can't, just makes it harder.
I hope it doesn't sound like I'm scolding anyone or anything. It's late at night, I'm just posting what I'm thinking without filtering it too much. I mean, I'm not
really one to talk, I abandoned mine. And it's not like there's some weird obligation for people to do them.
But if you are going to, I think that's how.