Critique and Advice; the treadmill of adventuring.

One of the things I'm worried about is that people might not give me a chance when they learn that the protagonist is a hermaphrodite.

There are several reasons as to why people wouldn't respond well to that, and i'm willing to bet a large deal of money that its not the same reasons people would have a problem on 4chan

For starters you should probably do some baseline research into queer terminology